Hello 2025
My yearly theme for 2025 and a couple of updates.
HelloComputer
A weekly newsletter on being different by a non-binary, autistic person with ADHD.
Yearly Review 2024
A look back at my "Year of being OK". Was it OK?
Is Cold Water Dipping like BDSM?
It's a bit unusual to go for a cold dip in a storm, but any more so than nipple clamps?
The most OK time of the year
As an autistic person Christmas is complex. How am I facing it this year?
Skirts are back
After a few months of being afraid of the male gaze, I'm chosing to ignore it and wear fun skirts again.
5 years of Hello Computer
Happy birthday to this newsletter that has documented me coming out as non-binary, getting an ADHD diagnosis and wearing a thong to the beach.
Hopeless but not alone
What a week, huh? Lemon, it’s… pointless.
A queer person travels
I spent 3 weeks travelling round Europe. Was I safe? Did I see anything queer?
An autistic person travels
Thoughts and tips on train travel around Europe
Why is sci-fi fashion so binary?
In the future sci-fi says we will travel at across the galaxy at warp speed, ocassionally back in time for whales. But we won't be doing that in a skirt because sci-fi can't imagine a future where male bodies wear skirts. What?
A non-binary person goes to Paris
The highs and lows of having a beard and wearing a skirt around Paris.
Pause
Before the 5th anniversary of this newsletter I'm taking a month off to ponder what it is.