I just got the Matrix - a message from 2004
In 2004 I had some thoughts on the movie, The Matrix and how it related to my life. Have those thoughts aged well?
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Mens changing is upstairs, sir.
I went shopping in the city wearing jeans and a t-shirt. I was invisible to the world until I took a t-shirt dress to the gender neutral changing room where I was told, "the men's room is upstairs." *sigh*
2 month review of ADHD medication
After 2 months of varying levels of ADHD medication, how's life?
The Easter Bunny is more accepted than pronouns
Trans Day of Visibility and Easter collide. Why is the Easter bunny more socially accepted than a Trans person?
Being in the moment with ADHD and the Hokey Cokey
Is it possible to be in the moment and enjoy life when my ADHD brain is always overthinking? Can the Hokey Cokey help?
Going to a gig with ADHD
I tried to be in the moment at a gig the other day, for a band I enjoy. How did it go? Well I wrote half this post for a start. ADHD is a messy super power.
Using labels as an excuse or explanation
Are there any issues using terms like ADHD, neurodivergent or autistic to label ourselves? Can it excuse or explain our daily lives?
Stargazer
Pansexual Pride
A look at the photography of two people who identify as pansexual for Pansexual Pride
International Day of Persons with Disabilities
A look at the work of disabled photographers from around the world.
Autistic people using photography to communicate
If everyone has a camera, how are autistic people using photography to communicate through photographs of their every day lives? A look at a study on autism, photography and communication. Also featuring Breadth, a project aiming to challenge autism stereotypes.
Trans Day of Remembrance
Thinking of the photos we wish we made when we had the time. Remember to make time.
My Perspective Photo Competition
Highlighting a photography competition by Downs Syndrome Association. Photography is for all.
Queer Joy is a Protest
A look at queer work during the last Trump administration
AI and the Queer Gaze in Photography
AI is good but built upon so many problematic systems. How can queer photographers use it?
HelloComputer
Yearly Review 2024
A look back at my "Year of being OK". Was it OK?
Is Cold Water Dipping like BDSM?
It's a bit unusual to go for a cold dip in a storm, but any more so than nipple clamps?
The most OK time of the year
As an autistic person Christmas is complex. How am I facing it this year?
Skirts are back
After a few months of being afraid of the male gaze, I'm chosing to ignore it and wear fun skirts again.
5 years of Hello Computer
Happy birthday to this newsletter that has documented me coming out as non-binary, getting an ADHD diagnosis and wearing a thong to the beach.
Hopeless but not alone
What a week, huh? Lemon, it’s… pointless.
A queer person travels
I spent 3 weeks travelling round Europe. Was I safe? Did I see anything queer?